What’s Mine is Mine, What’s Yours Is Negotiable!

Does the above statement challenge you or make you feel uncomfortable? If so, you’re not alone. Most Americans tend to shy away from negotiating situations.

Why not join me and become an active student of the art of negotiating!  Enhancing your negotiating skills can influence every aspect of your personal, family and business life.

Tapping the resources on this site will help you recognize and react more effectively to a multitude of negotiating opportunities. Be careful. You might become a negotiating junkie, just like me.  (I hope so!)

Above all, Keep Negotiating!


In the next 24 hours, you'll face dozens of opportunities to negotiate. Are you prepared?

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Each of these modules represents a powerful, practical technique that can help bridge the gap between the law and the help you need. No "legalese", I promise!

Negotiating with an Unreasonable Opponent

John - May 4, 2011 - Negotiating Article Archive

What strategy is in order when one encounters a negotiating opponent who has clearly abandoned common sense? Their degree of being unreasonable amazes you. This is another one of those good new/bad news situations. The good news is that there a multiple options available. The bad news is that they rarely work. It’s really tough [...]

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Negotiating Strategy: Disarming Your Opponent

John - April 2, 2011 - Negotiating Article Archive

When the hard bargaining begins both parties tend to ramp up their defenses. Such actions make it doubly difficult for one party to gain the advantage. What can you do to change these dynamics and, to some degree, disarm you opponent? Who hasn’t heard the saying, “Flattery will get you everywhere”? It’s likely your negotiating [...]

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Family Negotiating: Bringing it Home!

John - March 11, 2011 - Negotiating Article Archive

While most of us confine our negotiating attention to business and financial transactions, we shouldn’t ignore the negotiating opportunities within the family. Many holidays seem to provide more family time along with opportunities to use negotiating techniques or influence strategies for work in the family context. The Alternate of Choice: It never fails, the ball [...]

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Negotiating Boundary Setting: How to Say “No”

John - February 23, 2011 - Negotiating Article Archive

Negotiators are conflicted because they often want to sent two messages at the same time with opposite meanings. More specifically, they want to be firm in rejecting an unworthy proposal but they don’t want that rejection to be offensive or even insulting. Good negotiators know the value of ‘relationship negotiating’ whereby they strive to establish [...]

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